My family knows that I am a big (literally and figuratively), Sarah Geronimo fan. When I saw a Facebook friend’s status insinuating Cristine Reyes (a b-star sexy actress) throwing fits against Sarah Geronimo, I quickly logged on to twitter. It turns out, I am a Christine Reyes follower and my Twitter wall is covered with negative vibes against my beloved idol.
For six hours, Ms. Reyes twits whatever she has on mind starting with this tweet:
Cristine reyes
PilyangSweet Cristine reyes
I AM SO PISSED RIGHT NOW!
Followed by:
PilyangSweet Cristine reyes
Hindi ko gusto yun banat ng drama princess porket wala ako sa ASAP XV.akala mo ba e hindi makakarating sakin? Punong puno na ako sayo.
Cristine reyes
PilyangSweet Cristine reyes
Pagmamagaling magsayaw habulin ng mga babaeng sexy… FYI mali ka ng dialogue e baka habulin mo. Ikaw ang naghabol! binreak ka nga e!
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So, according to my twitter research, it turns out that during ASAP rehearsals, Cristine was not there. Sarah Geronimo and John Pratts were teasing each other and Sarah said that if a guy is a good dancer, sexy girls chase after him (Pagmagaling magsayaw, habuln ng mga babaeng sexy). Cristine is seeing Sarah’s alleged ex-boyfriend, Rayver Cruz. In her twits, Christine wrote that Sarah was “naghahabol”, or was still going after Rayver despite of having Cristine as his girlfriend. The outburst went on and on until I decided to see the twits of John Pratts on Cristine’s allegations. Just this afternoon, I read this from John Pratts’ tweets, but cannot find it anymore: “wala akong nakitang masama sa sinabi ni Sarah.”, “it’s just a miscommunication, sana magkaayos na ang lahat”.
Social media humanizes celebrities
For a public figure such as Cristine Reyes, being on social media is both an advantage and disadvantage. An advantage because they can be close to their fans and followers, they can show who they really are apart from what is being seen on TV. Social media humanizes them. However, using social media should be under great care. What Sarah said was a joke meant solely for John Pratts, but Christine took it as statement meant to hurt her. To vent out her anger, Christine used twitter, for whatever purpose she has. Social media a good tool to vent out, as we usually do, but still with great care.
Personal space
Social media users should know that negative statements, especially around specific persons is not a good read. In twitter and facebook, the messages of friends’ or twitters whom one follows are shown on the wall. That is a personal space. A friend with a lot of negative messages can be deleted by those who find it harsh or bad. It’s a space, you can say whatever you want but a consequence is being unfriended or unfollowed. That is not good in the social media sphere.
Consequences
Just like P-noy’s speech writer who was criticized for expressing her thoughts on their official visit to Vietnam, Cristine will face some criticisms from Sarah’s fans and praises from hers. Social media is a new social tool. Using it would eventually develop norms and customs. Ones values and character will be revealed on how one uses this. On this matter, grace and tolerance should be exercised so that clarity can be achieved. Twitting controversial thoughts might give a person five minutes of fame or even achieve a trending status. But what is more important is how one is going to be remembered as a social media user.
Do not underestimate the power of your thoughts.